They wrote to me sending all real type of anecdotes and situations to me that had happened to them being on watch. For the aim of this course of brief psycotherapy online, I am going to put like practical example of bad communication, the following situation: A stewardess get ready to distribute to the passengers the matutinal press, when from the bottom of the corridor a gentleman demands his attention saying young lady, young lady, press economic The crew member without perturbing from time to time continuous distributing newspapers, being interrupted from the bottom with an insistent one – young lady. she presses economic The situation follows equal, until the crew member, two rows before arriving at that gentleman, exclaims watching the passenger to whom she was giving a newspaper to him: then economic than this, that is not going to him to cost nor a duro All the passengers heard who it loosen a great outburst of laughter and the one that asked for the economic press very insistently put a claim In principle to him is a graceful anecdote and about a superficial examination we could think that passenger made no sense of humor. If we paid attention in detail, we will see more by what has been said arrives that at the stewardess him forgetfulness 93% of the communication. Instead of to ***reflx mng itself WITH the passenger, it was ***reflxed mng OF the passenger. All that would have been avoided, if at the first moment, when the passenger protested to him from the bottom, she would have watched him a single moment or would have done a small gesture with the hand, commanding to him the nonverbal communication (93%) of received message (to think about much that it bothers to us when in the bar of a bar, we asked the waiter a coffee to him and this, in spite of being closely together, it does not send any message to us of to have seen to us or to have heard). I have another situation that represents the antithesis of this last one: SITUATION: Next to the boarding door she was the stewardess with a companion of crew.
To the bottom the last loaded passenger came from bulks by all the sites. When he was around them two, it did not happen oneself to him to one of them another thing that watching, to say to him aloud: that hard is the changes I was born in Barcelona (Spain). I am doctor psychiatrist, psychologist and psychotherapist. I have been more than 30 years dedicating me to the psycotherapy, as much in its educational aspect as clinical. At the moment very I am centered in the integral psycotherapy brief, that stops the one that does not know it is a planned therapy that it includes to the individual in his totality (physical aspects, psychic and social). It is a very creative therapy and took me to the photography (work with the photographic history of the patients) that along with the writing, the sports and the reading are my favourite likings. If you enter my blog you will see that what I try through different articles, it is to present a easy form and online the complexity of my daily work